【覺察自己「being創造」或「doing找尋」？】
如果你在找尋某樣東西，你就並沒擁有它。
如果你認為關係(Relationship)的目的是為了「找到」某樣東西，你會繼續尋找它，而無法「創造」它。
關係的目的是：經由與別人分享「你認為你有」的東西，而「創造」更大的喜悅、快樂、完整和滿足。
「找到」與「創造」之間有巨大的差別。
摘自《走出靈性文盲》第6章
If you're finding something, you do not have it.
If you think that the purpose of a relationship is to "find" something, then you will be continually looking for it.
You won't experience that it's in- side you, because you wouldn't be trying to find it if it were inside you.
The purpose of a relationship is to create joy and happiness, completion and fulfillment, through the sharing of life with another.
There's a huge difference.
