If you're finding something, you do not have it.
If you think that the purpose of a relationship is to "find" something, then you will be continually looking for it.
You won't experience that it's in- side you, because you wouldn't be trying to find it if it were inside you.
The purpose of a relationship is to create joy and happiness, completion and fulfillment, through the sharing of life with another.
There's a huge difference.