想要真正地認識自己，了解「自己真正是誰、是什麼」，你是否也該了解一下自己的一生是被誰設計出來、如何設計出來的？與神有何關係？
如果你想了解這些人生大哉問的各大問題，並獲得最簡明又直接的解答，不把「與神對話信息」排除在外會是一個明智之舉。不妨參考一下此篇：
聽神談【誰在決定和設計「你這一生」的際遇？】
我告訴你們，沒有任何一件發生在你們人生中的事情，不是為了提供一種精確完美的機會，讓你去癒合、去創造或去經歷某事物，以讓你可以去成為「你真正是誰」(in order to be Who You Really Are.)
尼爾：那麼，我又真正是誰呢？
任何你選擇成為的那個(Whomever you choose to be.)。任何「神性」面向中你想要成為的——那即「你是誰」(Whatever aspect of Divinity you wish to be---that's Who You Are.)。那是你們可以在任何時間改變的，實際上，你們常常在改變。然而，如果你希望你的人生安定下來，希望不要再帶給你這麼多樣的變化，有一個方法可循。只要不再非常頻繁地改變你對「你是誰，和你選擇成為誰」的想法即可。
尼爾：那說起來容易，做起來難！
我看到的是，你們是在多個不同的層面上做這些決定(making these decisions at many different lvels)。決定出去馬路上玩耍的小女孩並沒有選擇要死亡。她可能有好幾種其他的選擇，但死亡不是其中之一。媽媽清楚這一點。
這裡的問題不是孩子選擇死亡，而是孩子所做的選擇可能導致不止一個結果，包括死亡。這個事實是她不清楚的，她並不知道這點。這是她缺欠的資料——而這使孩子沒能做出更清楚、更好的選擇。
而我，身為神，永遠不會干涉你們的選擇——但我永遠知道你們在選擇什麼。
因此，你可以假定，如果有什麼事情發生在你身上，那麼它的發生是完美的——因為在神的世界(沒有任何地方不屬於神的世界)中，沒有任何事情是不完美的。
你一生的設計——其中的人們、地點、事件——全都是由「完美本身的完美的創造者：你」所完美地創造出來的。而我…則在你之內，以你之身，並且藉由你(in, as, and through you 在經驗和認識我自己為神)。
因此現在，我們可以在這共同創造的過程中，有意識地或無意識地一起運作。你可以有覺知地，或無覺知地過一生。你可以昏睡地，或覺醒地走你的人生道路。
由你們選擇。
摘自《與神對話 III》第1章
Nothing can happen—I say to you, nothing can occur—in your life which is not a precisely perfect opportunity for you to heal something, create something, or experience something that you wish to heal, create, or experience in order to be. Who You Really Are.
Neale: And who, really, am I?
Whomever you choose to be. Whatever aspect of Divinity you wish to be—that's Who You Are. That can change at any given moment. Indeed, it often does, from moment to moment. Yet if you want your life to settle down, to stop bringing you such a wide variety of experiences, there's a way to do that. Simply stop changing your mind so often about Who You Are, and Who You Choose to Be.
Neale: That may be easier said than done!
What I see is that you are making these decisions at many different levels. The child who decides to go out into the street to play in traffic is not making a choice to die. She may be making a number of other choices, but dying is not one of them. The mother knows that.
The problem here is not that the child has chosen to die, but that the child has made choices that could lead to more than one outcome, including her dying. That fact is not clear to her; it is unknown to her. It is the missing data—which stops the child from making a clear choice, a better choice.
So you see, you have analyzed it perfectly.
Now, I, as God, will never interfere with your choices—but I will always know what they are.
Therefore, you may assume that if a thing happens to you, it is perfect that it did so—for nothing escapes perfection in God's world.
The design of your life—the people, places, and events in it—have all been perfectly created by the perfect creator of perfection itself: you. And Me... in, as, and through you.
Now We can work together in this co-creative process consciously or unconsciously. You can move through life aware, or unaware. You can walk your path asleep, or awake.
You choose.
