巴夏精選短片(50秒)：【什麼是真正的「改變」？衡量改變的重點】Bashar132
Ruminate on the measure of a True Change
巴夏精選短片：【什麼是真正的「改變」？衡量改變的重點】Bashar132
影片摘自：2017-Dare to Dream
中文翻譯：Jimmy
此短片內容：
It's not what happens. It's "what you do with what happens".
重點不在「發生了什麼」事情。重點在：對於發生的事情「你做出了什麼」回應。
The measure of change is not whether the outside changes. The measure of change is "whether you response differently even the outside still looks the same".
衡量「改變」的重點不在於「外在情境是否改變」。衡量改變的重點在於「你是否做出不一樣回應」即使外在情境仍舊看起來和以前一樣。
Because if you're basing how you feel on what happens on the outside, then your change is conditional, it's not really a change. And therefore, why should the outside change? Because you really haven't.
因為，若你以「外在所發生的」作為你衡量感受的基準，(那表示)你的改變是「有條件的」(視外在情況的改變你才改變)，那並非一種真正的改變。因此，外在情境為什麼要改變呢？因為你還沒有真正地改變。
But, when you say this is not what I prefer, and it doesn't matter what the outside looks like.
但是，如果你說「這不是我所喜歡的」，而且不論外在情境看起來如何，(你都會做出和以前不一樣的思言行的回應)。
Now, you've proven that you've changed. And when you've proven you've changed, the outside usually changes.
這麼一來，你就已證明了「你已經改變」。而當你證實了你已經改變，外在的情境通常也就(隨之)改變。
Not because you need it to, just because the outside has no choice but to change, when you have actually changed, when you've proven you've changed, but not caring whether the reflection changes or not.
不是因為你需要外在情境改變，只是因為——當你已確實改變了，當你已證實了自己的改變，而不在乎外在的反映是否改變——(你的)外在情境便毫無選擇，只好改變。
